Moving House with Kids: Making Relocation Easier for Children

Moving House with Kids: Making Relocation Easier for Children

Moving to a new home can be a significant source of stress for children of all ages. Whether they’re toddlers facing their first move or teenagers leaving their established social circles, kids need extra support and understanding during the transition.

Age-Appropriate Communication

How you discuss moving with your children should match their developmental level:

Young Children (Ages 3-7): Focus on positive aspects like a new backyard or closer proximity to friends. Use simple language and reassuring tones.

Elementary Age (Ages 8-12): Involve them in the process. Let them help pack their belongings and say goodbye to their current home.

Teenagers (Ages 13-18): Treat them more like adults. Discuss the move openly, acknowledge their concerns about leaving friends, and give them some input in the new home’s design.

Reducing Moving-Day Stress

On moving day:

• Arrange for children to stay with friends or family if possible
• If they must be present, assign them a “safe zone” away from heavy lifting
• Keep their favorite comfort items accessible
• Maintain regular meal and rest schedules

Helping Kids Adjust

Once settled in the new home:

• Prioritize setting up their room first
• Explore the neighborhood together
• Help them connect with local children through activities
• Maintain connections with old friends through video calls and visits

“Children who are included in the moving process and allowed to express their feelings adjust more successfully than those who are shielded from the changes.”